Monday, April 28, 2014

Courage Knocked On My Door (our inRL meet-up story)

I almost canceled my meet-up…twice.

When the opportunity to host the (in) real life portion of Incourage's 2014 conference came again this year I didn't hesitate to sign-up. Last year's meet-up had been a positive experience and I had high hopes of reconnecting with some of the same women who knocked on my front door and shared space on my couch last year.

Early on, my RSVP list filled up with women I knew and already shared life with, just as I had hoped.

But about a month before the meet-up, over half of the women who I thought were coming changed their RSVPs to no. And I was filled with disappointment and doubt.

Last year there was only one woman I had never met here. This year, I knew only one of the eight women signed up.

It felt like the pendulum swung to the other side and all of the sudden this introvert was opening her home to strangers (His plan, not necessarily mine). But God swung with the pendulum and reassured my doubting heart that the women who would gather in my home that day were exactly who He wanted there.

So I recommitted in my heart to follow through on my commitment to host.

Brave knocked on my door seven times this Saturday.


Together we watched stories shared and we laughed and we cried together.

And watching brave on the television cultivated courageous sharing in my living room.

Women connected only by Christ encouraged and empathized, spoke truth and showered love on each other.

As the afternoon sun streaked rays through the window curtains, we bonded over modge podge and searching for meaning in words.


Each woman walked in a stranger and out a friend in Christ.

I'm so honored by their courage — to not just sign up for a stranger's meet-up, but to actually show up at my front door.

And I'm so overwhelmed how God showed up here and prepared a safe place for hard stories to be shared and heard. And for the grace and compassion each woman gave without hesitation. What a gift!

These wonderful ladies taught me that there's beauty and brave in the story being written inside each one of us.

And that there's more to the (in)RL tag lines —

Your story matters…because you matter.

We need your story…because it's God's story being weaved and told through each of us.

And His story is full of redemption and healing and washed in His incredible and unconditional love for us.

How can we keep that to ourselves?



Click here to read other (in)RL 2014 meet-up stories…

9 comments:

Jolene Underwood said...

Beautiful Christy! I love that you stepped bravely forward as God led you, and walked with you. What a blessing to the other woman too! I think these small gatherings are perfect for online conferences like this. They foster a networking of shared love for Christ, shared stories & shared encouragement.

So blessed to connect with you online.

Beth Stiff said...

I just love this. I love how God was moving that morning as woman bravely gathered together. I attended my first meet-up on Saturday and did not know anyone but oh how blessed I was by our time together. Thank you for your heart to open your door to others. Blessings.

Crystal Stine said...

Oh I love this line: "Brave knocked on my door seven times this Saturday." Thank YOU for being brave an opening that door seven times :)

Karrilee Aggett said...

I love this, friend and I am so glad you chose Brave and held your heart and door open wide!

dayebydaye said...

I love this, Christy! Thanks for sharing your story and for being so brave, for allowing God to stretch you. LOVE!

BARBIE said...

I love how God joins us together in community. Reading all of these amazing, brave stories is making me want to host next year!

Kaitlyn Bouchillon said...

"Brave knocked on my door seven times" oh girl. Love that. You better believe I'm copying and pasting into the (in)RL post. :)

Jill Richardson said...

Love it. Love your courage and willingness, and love modge podge. So really, that's just an all around win.

Christy Willard said...

Thank you all for stopping by!

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